Wow, Pete, that's a pretty harsh take. While I agree that $20K might not be enough for a sustainable poker career, I think there's value in pursuing one's passions. Maybe WillyA could start with lower stakes and gradually work their way up?
Remember, communication is key. Sit down with your husband and have an honest conversation about your concerns. Try to understand his perspective while explaining yours. Sometimes, just talking it through can lead to a mutual understanding.